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Sometimes we find what we are looking for

seafoam car with wood paneling

After months of searching and agony, you finally find the perfect car. It’s seafoam green and paneled in wood. The day comes for you to proudly take it for an inaugural cruise down Main Street. People stop and stare. Children let go of their balloons and drop their ice cones as you glide by. Dogs are even distracted away from the squirrels they were chasing. Then, as you burst with pride, horrifying terror passes just in front of you. It is another seafoam barge with wood paneling gliding through the intersection. Choking on your triple-shot soy raspberry latte it is then that you see them. Everywhere you look there are cars just like yours. Dejected you struggle to come to terms with the reality that your thing of mechanical beauty will not be the singular object of humanity’s desire you had hoped it would be. Why didn’t you see them before? Simple. You were not looking for them. Now your perspective has changed and you see what has always been there.

This post really is not about freighter cars with faux wood accents, it’s about what seeing what we are looking for. Proverbs 1:27 says, “Whoever seeks good finds favor, but evil comes to one who searches for it” (NIV).

Every second of our world is flooded with thousands of images. We hear stories of doom, gloom, and demise. Daily we cross paths with people that speak, see, act and think differently than we do. In nearly every interaction we make a choice, most of the time without even thinking about it, to see good or to see evil. My challenge is to consciously choose to see the good rather than search for the evil. In doing so we find and give favor. Yet, when I seek evil, to see and think the worst in others, I will be sure to find it, even if all the evidence that exists is to the contrary. So today choose to seek and find the good and don’t be surprised if it is a lot harder than expected to carry out. We are all in this together, because, like all things we preacher types write and speak about, it is far easier for us to pontificate than to actually live out.

Blessings,
Stephen

Breakout the Jackhammers and Open the Roof

Dig a big hole

Dear Friends,

It really was a very crazy scene. The crowds were swelling around Jesus. He was teaching. He was healing. He was casting out demons. And anyone who was anyone was there to see it all. Luke says the crowd grew so large that “one day as [Jesus] was teaching, Pharisees and teachers of the law, who had come from every village of Galilee and from Judea and Jerusalem, were sitting there” (5:17). There were so many of them pressed in around Jesus that some men, carrying their paralytic friend, couldn’t get him in to see Jesus. So they did they only reasonable thing they cold think of. They climbed up on the roof of the house, broke out the pick axes, shovels, sledgehammers, and dynamite and opened a hole in the roof. Then, using ropes, they lowered their paralytic friend right down in front of the crowd next to Jesus and “when Jesus saw their faith, he said, ‘Friend, your sins are forgiven'” (vs. 20). And the man who had once been paralyzed leaped into the air dancing around. The pharisees and teaches of the law began to cheer. Even the Chief Priest got involved hoisting the man into the air so he could body surf the crowd of followers of God. It was all going great until he accidentally knocked old Caiaphas’ hat off his head. In a moment the crowd went silent staring in fear at what he might do, but Caiaphas only laughed and picked his hat up off the floor. Who could be angry on a day like this? A man who as paralyzed now can walk. At least that is how we want the story to go, but it didn’t go that way. The reality of a man who would never walk again miraculously walking was quickly lost in a theological technicality. Jesus had not played by their rules. Jesus has not set a man free in the way they knew God set men free. Time and time again the devout would fail to see that the good news was being preached to the poor, prisoners were set free, the blind recovered their sight, the oppressed were released, and the year of the Lord’s favor proclaimed (4:18-19) all because he wasn’t doing it properly.

The good news is, after 2,000 years, we finally know better. Or, maybe we don’t. Several years ago I read Billy Graham’s biography. The one thing that stood out to me was the amount of vitriol and hatred that was directed toward him early in his ministry, and one some levels continues to this day. The truth of people being saved and set free did not matter. He was not doing it the right way.

What about you? Have there been times when you have been quick to criticize another because it made you uncomfortable or didn’t fit your understanding all the while missing the miracle that just happened in front of you?

Blessings,
Pastor Stephen

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