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Changing the Paradigm

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Dear Friends,

As I practice my social distancing I have been reading and thinking a great deal about what is next for the church. In my reading I came across this quote I want to share with you:

For years, the mission of the church in the United States was largely defined in terms of offering attractive programs to retain its members, building appealing structures and services to draw new members, and participating in some type of benevolent pursuit to appease the conscience of the few individuals looking to make a difference in the world . . . recent developments have contributed to a rediscovery that the mission and purpose of the church do not stem from charting institutional health through traditional quantifiable metrics. Rather, the Church ought to understand its role primarily as a partner and co-participant in the mission of God, whose desire is to redeem humanity, restore creation, heal brokenness, and invite Christians everywhere to embrace their true identity in Christ. (Twibell 82)

Years ago I was at a church event where the host church was celebrating their opening of a children’s play area. They proudly announced how many kids in the community had come onto their turf in the last year. I commend the church for its desire to do something for the community. As I drove around the community I could not help but wonder, “Is this really what the community needed? Did they need it most on the church’s turf? What could the impact have been if they had built in another part of town and resisted the temptation to brand it with the church’s brand? What if it had been about the community rather than the church?”

I know these are hard questions, and some might even say unfair, but as a pastor, I see regularly that people are tired of our efforts to attract them to come to our events. We have lost people’s trust. They are onto our games.

And now we, the Church, have been given a great gift. We have nothing to invite them to. Our buildings are closed, our programs suspended. All we have to offer is ourselves, our love, our compassion, our concern, our generosity. We have nothing to offer but Jesus who, when saying why he came, quoted from the prophet Isaiah and said:

The Spirit of the Lord is on me,
because he has anointed me
to proclaim good news to the poor.
He has sent me to proclaim freedom for the prisoners
and recovery of sight for the blind,
to set the oppressed free,
to proclaim the year of the Lord’s favor.
(Luke 4:18-19, NIV)

I am concerned whether we are learning from the lessons this time is teaching us. What if, when we are finally released to “life as normal” we don’t go back to our old ways? What if, instead of expecting people to come to us on our terms, we went to them on theirs? What if we continued to live outside our walls seeking to find new and ever more ways to love and serve our community joining in the mission of God to “redeem humanity, restore creation, heal brokenness, and invite Christians everywhere to embrace their true identity in Christ?”

What if?

Blessings,
Stephen

SOURCE:
Twibell, Simone Mulieri. “Missional Act in Spiritual Formation: Moving Beyond Mission Trips into the Realm of Missional Living.” Missional Disciple-Making, edited by Michael J. Breen and David M. Gustafson, 3DM Publishing, 2019, pp. 82–104.

Sacred Meals

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Final meals together are special, they are sacred times. But despite their sacredness, for most of our final meals we never know it will be the last one we will share together so they also tend to be ordinary, uneventful, and routine.

As Jesus and his disciples gathered together on this night to celebrate the Passover meal in Jerusalem it was like many others they had shared together and with friends and family through the years of their life, ordinary and routine. Still there was a charge of anticipation in the room. The disciples knew there was significance to this night, but not in a way they could ever imagine. For them, they gathered in Jerusalem. The heart of their nation. The city of kings. The soul of their faith. And as Jesus says to them, “I have eagerly desired to share this meal with you . . .” They could not have begun to understand what lay ahead in the hours to come.

So it was that they would spend the evening arguing over a topic of discussion and disagreement they had many times before. They were like so many of our families, weren’t they? We can get together and it seems like the same old topics of discussion, arguments and disagreement reappear, no matter how many times we vow to not talk about it. For the disciples, the topic they could never get away from was, “Which of them was the greatest?” It seemed to be a continuous burr in their side. And tonight the conversation was especially charged. After all, they were in Jerusalem. Surely this would be the moment when Jesus would declare his reign as king and bring his kingdom to earth.

The intensity of their argument grew white hot and they became so engrossed that no one noticed Jesus getting up from the table and moving to the side of the room to a small spot right next to the door. They paid no attention to the sound of water being poured into a basin. It was only as Jesus began to remove his outer garments did the disciples shouts begin to trail off as they sat in confusion trying to figure out what Jesus was up to.

One by one Jesus would call each of his disciples over. One by one, he would kneel before them and wash their feet. Becoming the lowest, the most despised of servants.

For the disciples, this night was really like any other night. For Jesus, this night was a final meal together and there was one more lesson these men needed to learn before darkness would surround them and they would find themselves tested beyond the breaking point. The lesson of service. It wasn’t that Jesus had not tried to teach this lesson to his disciples before. A few days earlier Jesus had cautioned them not follow the example of those who grabbed for power and position. Instead telling them:

“The greatest among you will be your servant. For whoever exalts himself will be humbled, and whoever humbles himself will be exalted.” Matthew 23:12

And how could they have so quickly forgotten the day when people were bringing their children and babies to Jesus to bless and the disciples tried to drive these parents away. Jesus had rebuked them with the words:

“Let the little children come to me, and do not hinder them, for the kingdom of God belongs to such as these. I tell you the truth, anyone who will not receive the kingdom of God like a little child will never enter it.” Luke 18:16-17

It was a final meal together and there were some lessons about the Kingdom of God that still had to be learned and time was running out.

Jesus’ simple act of washing his disciple’s feet reminds us of the priorities of God. Life is not about the accumulation of greater wealth, gaining another title or accolade, squeezing just a little more profit margin, driving a new car, having a bigger house, growing a bigger and bigger kingdom.

Jesus would give us a different example of how to live. Jesus always lives with a grander vision for people. Especially broken people. Tax collectors, drunkards, and sinners. The poor, the blind, the lame, the deaf. These are the one’s Jesus came for. People like you and me. For we are all sinners and drunkards, poor and blind unable to rescue ourselves.

When Jesus called Peter it was at Peter’s moment of greatest career success that Jesus says to him. You think this is good. I invite you to leave behind that which is temporal and live for that which is eternal. You can spend your life catching fish or you can lay down your plans and pick up my plans and spend your life catching people.

Jesus had a grander vision for a woman beside a well. She came to satisfy her thirst for water. He offered water that would never run dry. He offered her living water and the chance for eternal life.

And so it was, on this night as his disciples and they argued about which of them was the greatest, Jesus would get up and become their servant to wash their feet. And He invites us to do the same.

“I have set for you an example that you should do as I have done for you. I tell you the truth, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.” (John 13:15-17).

There comes a moment for each one of us when we will stand beside a basin and a towel. We will have a choice. Do we sit down and wait for someone to serve us? Will we say “I am the center of my world.” Or will we remove our outer garments, remove all the pretense and the masks. All of the striving to make something of ourselves. All those things which we have found our value in and instead pick up the basin and towel and choose to live for a grander vision.

It is possible for us to serve out of the inherent goodness of serving. We can serve our brother and sister because it makes us look good and we can become pillars in our community.

Oswald Chambers would say:

“As His disciples, our lives must be a holy example of the reality of our message. Even the natural heart of the unsaved will serve if called upon to do so, but it takes a heart broken by conviction of sin, baptized by the Holy Spirit, and crushed into submission to God’s purpose to make a person’s life a holy example of God’s message.”

It is only with a heart broken by the conviction of your sin. Sin that reminds you that left to yourself, you will always choose yourself. You will serve, not for the sake of others, but will serve for your own sake.

Before we kneel before our brother and sister we must kneel before our God. We must confess our own pride our own failure, our own selfishness our sin.

Then, and only then, as a response to the new life given to us by God are we truly able to serve our brother and sister.

Blessings,
Pastor Stephen

 

Close enough to be burned

Dear Friends,

Are you close enough to those who suffer to feel their pain yourself? Many times I have sat in meetings or been a part of conversations that questioned whether they church really should be helping those who walk in from the street. Often those discussions are filled with questions asking “What if?”

What if they take advantage of us?
What if they use the money we give them to buy alcohol?
What if the story they are telling us is not true?
What if they go back to their old way of life?
What if they take our generosity and walk away?
What if I get hurt?
What if it takes too much of my time?
What if I do not have the answers to their problems?
What if . . . ?
What if . . . ?
What if I lived as Jesus lived?
What if I loved as Jesus loves?

Jesus demonstrated for us a different kind of life and a different kind of leadership than many of us are comfortable with. As Henri Nouwen in his book The Wounded Healer, states “The beginning and the end of all Christian leadership is the give your life for others” (77).

How many times did Jesus heal a person and tell them to go and sin no more and the person then went and sinned? How many times did people take the second chance given to them my Jesus and squander it? We do not know. The Bible never says. Maybe that is just the point. To love is to risk being taken advantage of and to be hurt but we love and serve anyway. Nouwen goes on to say “Who can save a child from a burning house without taking the risk of being hurt by the flames? Who can listen to a story of loneliness and despair without taking the risk of experiencing similar pains in their own heart and even losing their precious peace of mind? In short, ‘Who can take away suffering without entering it?'” (78)

Blessings,
Pastor Stephen

How to Find a More Excellent Way

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Maybe Paul knew we were not going to get along with each other. Maybe he knew we, as humans, are competitive by nature. No matter what we are doing there always has to be a winner and a loser. Someone has to be on top and be better than someone else. In the church we are certainly no better. In the midst of our competitiveness Paul wades deep into murky waters and attempts to address spiritual gifts. In his letter to the people of the ancient city of Corinth he begins to lay a foundation teaching us four things:

1. Your spiritual gifts are just that gifts.

“Now to each one the manifestation of the Spirit is given . . .” (1 Corinthians 12:7).

The gifts we have, whether they be wisdom, knowledge, prophecy, or healing are not earned by you and I, and therefore we have no reason to be proud of them. We may have a picture on our wall of a state championship earned in high school. This is good, we should be proud of the accomplishments we worked hard for. But spiritual gifts are different, there are no plaques on our walls. No pictures of glory days to look back on. They come from God at his discretion.

2 . . . . but they aren’t for you.

“. . . for the common good” (1 Corinthians 12:7).

To be a Christian is to live and share in community. We are spiritual gift Pony Express riders. We have been given the satchel of gifts to carry for our designated time until we can pass it on to the next rider and ultimately see it emptied out for the community to enjoy what is inside.

3. We need each other.

“The body is a unit, though it is made up of many parts; and though all its parts are many, they form on body” (12:12).

As much as we may be tempted to go it alone our gifts are worthless on their own. The gifts God gives to each one of us only have value when they are combined with each other’s. Attempting to go it alone makes us look like a chicken with its head cut off. The show is fun to watch for a little while, people may even chase you around, but eventually inevitable death will come.

4. There is an even better way.

“And now I will show you the most excellent way” (12:31).

The way is love. It is rare to hear 1 Corinthians 13 read outside of the context of a wedding ceremony, but when Paul shares these words he is not standing in a chapel wearing an Elvis costume he is describing the “most excellent way” for the church. This is what the church should look like. This is how we should treat each other. This is what using our spiritual gifts should be. So “follow the way of love and eagerly desire spiritual gifts” (14:1) because . . .

Love is patient and kind.
Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude.
Love does not demand its own way.
Love is not irritable,
Love keeps no record of being wronged.
Love does not rejoice about injustice
Love rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
Love never gives up
Love never loses faith
Love is always hopeful
Love endures through every circumstance.

Now that is the kind of church I want to be part of!

Pastor Stephen

For Even

Dear Friends,

“For even.” Two powerful words which express the commonness of humanity and the ordinary mechanics of life. Words which force us back to reality when we are tempted to choose a special status for ourselves.

For even the jewels upon the crown were once dusty rocks in the ground carried by ordinary people.

For even the eagle which soars effortlessly on the currents of the air must stop and sleep.

PigFor even that sizzling juicy piece of bacon basking in the glow of the morning sun upon your plate was once a pig wallowing in the mud. Though truth be told, we may call it mud, we all know it is much more than that. It is months of sloppy horticultural stimulation goodness that when lathered upon a pig for thirty days gives your bacon a flavor nothing short of pure culinary ecstasy.

As Christians our call is to live a life guided by the for even.

For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many (Mark 10:45, NIV)

For even the one who holds the universe in his hands used his hands to touch the infected skin of a leper.

For even the one who spoke this world into existence spoke words of forgiveness to a woman caught in adultery.

For even he whose will alone determines the movements of the universe knelt down and washed his disciples feet.

For even the one who existed before time would walk the dusty roads of the Middle East.

For even he who could call down 10,000 angels to come to his aid chose to suffer on a cross.

For even Jesus served and came to serve.

As Christians in the United States we enjoy many benefits. We have built magnificent buildings. We have carved out a Christian culture for ourselves. And as great as the blessings and benefits we relish are, we must never forget the for even.

Our call is to serve not to be served. Our call is to surrender over status. Our example is one of suffering. For even I am sinner saved by grace alone.

Blessings,
Stephen

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